THE BITTER TRUTH

The bitter truth is, men in Islam are free to marry more than one wife, the Quran said if they can be fair to both of them, the fairness was never mean equality, men can be fair but might not be able to be performed equally to the wives, even Allah says he know they can never be equal that "He" is the only one that can be equal,so the bitter  truth is we women should understand that to save our self from going through unnecessary headache stress and sadness of all sort,if Allah said he know they can not be equal and didn't say don't do it ,it mean we have to understand  the logic behind it.As far as Islam is concerned  non of us can be equal, if we can Commit sins and ask for forgiveness it mean we have not being fair and equal so we ask for forgiveness ,we should therefore take inequality of a man who has more than one wife as a forgivable sin then he is free to ask for forgiveness,we women should learn to tolerate, accommodate each other weather you gonna be second wife or third wife,may Allah help us to understand our deen and give us peace in it amin.